Testimonials

I found the Boot Camp to be truly life-changing. In just two days, my partner and I gained invaluable skills for simple and effective communication in all aspects of our lives, especially our romantic relationship. We had been struggling to feel heard and validated in our communication, often finding ourselves in repetitive arguments that led to resentment.

The Boot Camp provided a space for us to unpack our childhood experiences, identify our triggers, heal past wounds, and ultimately learn to communicate as healthy adults together. Jerry and Kristy’s personal stories, the course materials, group activities, and even the music kept us engaged.

As a dating couple aiming for a serious, long-term relationship, we are so grateful we chose this class to build a strong foundation. I truly believe this Boot Camp could be an incredible gift for couples, perhaps even before marriage or as a wedding present. My partner is a 60 year old, alpha male, blue-collar individual with ADHD and new to therapy, he was fully engaged throughout the two days and learned things about himself he never knew. He said our new life began on the last day of boot camp.

Personally, I learned more in those two days than I had in MANY years of therapy. It’s truly never too late to learn to communicate better and grow closer with loved ones.

I’m an executive coach and I’ve trained with Terry Real directly over the years. I recently attended Jerry and Kristy’s relationship boot camp in NYC. These skilled therapists have an exceptional way of holding the room, creating a space where everyone feels safe to share openly and learn from one another. The insights, tools, and supportive environment they provided were beyond what I expected, making a real impact on my approach. I wholeheartedly endorse this program for anyone looking to deepen their relational skills and create lasting change.

…a great weekend…a warm, caring, and safe environment leading to learning and practicing the skills…we felt we were part of a family who wanted to grow into more ‘mature adults’ and be in better partnerships. We loved watching everyone becoming more enthusiastic about the work and supporting each other in the process, always being held by two fabulous instructors.

Your compassion and authenticity were felt from the first moments and were both an invitation and a container to inwardly explore and outwardly express truths and vulnerabilities that are usually kept quite hidden and defended. Thank you for guiding us into a deeper practice of relating.

What really resonated was the authentic and warm environment you created and the down-to-earth manner in which you shared, responded to, and organized each part of the program….Your ability to present sensitive material in such genuine ways made it easier to be open and vulnerable in the large and small group activities.

I went into this event with an open and curious mind, trying very much to let go of outcomes and to just see what would unfold. What I got was so much more than I could ever have expected.

You were both incredible instructors; kind, gracious, compassionate, and patient… that night, we had one of the most in-depth conversations we’ve had in the 15 years we’ve been together.

My husband and I had a profound and eye opening experience. It was very refreshing as well to see and hear that we humans all have similar versions of the same fights & communicating styles.” —

This was not just a workshop in which you are given some tools to take home — although you definitely do receive these. It also provides deep experiential moments of shared vulnerability with other individuals and couples who struggle with many of the same frustrations. It opens your eyes and those of your partner to what you both bring to the unsuccessful dynamic that may be keeping you stuck. We are more optimistic about our ability to work through future moments of conflict.

I’ve been in therapy for many years and this workshop…was a profound and possibly life changing revelation/experience. So thank you, thank you, thank you!

I felt safe and encouraged. You both facilitate with grace, humility and wisdom. It’s a very interesting dance to educate on content while also providing an experiential learning space.

I left feeling a deep sense of love and honor for every person there, for showing up fully, as they are. It impressed upon me that this precious vulnerability, along with self-responsibility, presence, and using the right language is a golden combo that helps us bring out the best in ourselves and each other…I was also able to see myself more clearly and gain some insight regarding my behaviors that are standing in the way of experiencing greater intimacy.

I walked in seeking skills to put into practice in my marriage and I emerged with not only new knowledge and tools, but also a deeper connection with my husband and renewed hope for our future together.

Kristy and Jerry created a safe space where personal growth and healing could take place. I was amazed by the openness and sense of community that developed with everyone in the group over just two days. I wholeheartedly recommend this boot camp to anyone wishing to learn more about themselves and strengthen their connection with their partner.

I feel lighter than I have in years. Hard work, but worth it. I feel like I advanced my personal growth journey by a year in one weekend. Very powerful. I feel more attracted to my wife and more optimistic than I have in a long time.

I’m still in shock of what a change in me I have felt after attending your course. It was the best thing we could have ever done for our relationship. I’m sure we’re going to have tough days and conversations in the future, but I feel more in love with my wife and know that I have tools to help our communication when things get stressful. I just loved the format and openness of everyone. Thank you, thank you!

Jerry and Kristy created such a warm, safe space for all of us to be vulnerable and raw without making it emotionally taxing. They used humor and wit, and their extensive knowledge, as well as their humility, were expertly used to teach what could have been very intimidating content but instead became easily digestible truths about ourselves and our relationships. I am so glad I had the privilege of attending, and would absolutely recommend it to anyone at any time in their relationship journey!